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Dating Signals Library
Texting, affection, effort, plans, labels, boundaries, and consistency—read without fake certainty.
Browse all signals →8 FREE QUIZZES
Test the Pattern
Interest, red flags, texting, emotional availability, and relationship readiness—based on observable behavior.
Take a quiz →PRIVATE SCREENSHOT ANALYZER
Read the visible conversation
Local OCR, transparent pattern scoring, and shareable privacy-safe results.
Open it →TEXTING DICTIONARY
Hundreds of definitions
Slang, emoji, punctuation, phrases, and reply patterns with individual context pages.
Open it →RED FLAG ATLAS
Concrete scenarios by severity
Yellow, red, and urgent patterns with observable evidence and next steps.
Open it →PROFILE LAB
Hinge, Tinder, Bumble & Grindr
App-specific photo, prompt, bio, intent, and opening-move guidance.
Open it →DATING CALCULATORS
Six behavior-based reality checks
Interest, consistency, breadcrumbing, readiness, red flags, and compatibility.
Open it →Decode his texts
What he typed vs. what he meant — punctuation, emojis, and one-liners.
What does “k” mean?
Decode it →Left on read
Decode it →Left on delivered
Decode it →Reacts instead of replying
Decode it →He sends a voice message
Decode it →What the 👀 emoji means
Decode it →Heart emoji meaning
Decode it →A period at the end of a text
Decode it →“haha” vs “lol”
Decode it →What “wyd” means
Decode it →What “hmu” means
Decode it →Good morning text meaning
Decode it →Goodnight text meaning
Decode it →Pet names (babe, baby)
Decode it →Beautiful vs hot vs cute
Decode it →When he says “I miss you”
Decode it →Typing and stopping
Decode it →When he says “maybe”
Decode it →When he asks for a picture
Decode it →He stopped using emojis
Decode it →One-word replies
Decode it →“You're different”
Decode it →Fire emoji 🔥 meaning
Decode it →Smirk emoji 😏 meaning
Decode it →Winky face 😉 meaning
Decode it →He texts in all lowercase
Decode it →What “...” means in a text
Decode it →When he says “nvm”
Decode it →When he says “idk”
Decode it →Lots of exclamation points
Decode it →He texts paragraphs
Decode it →He uses your name in texts
Decode it →Thumbs up 👍 meaning
Decode it →Skull emoji 💀 meaning
Decode it →When he just says “lol”
Decode it →Upside-down 🙃 meaning
Decode it →100 💯 emoji meaning
Decode it →“lmao” vs “lol” vs “haha”
Decode it →He sends you a selfie
Decode it →Is he interested?
Read the real signals — effort, initiation, and where you actually stand.
Is he interested?
Decode it →He likes your old Instagram posts
Decode it →He mirrors your texts
Decode it →Likes me or wants attention?
Decode it →Flirting or just being nice?
Decode it →Is he hiding his feelings?
Decode it →Is he losing interest?
Decode it →He's giving mixed signals
Decode it →He replies fast
Decode it →He texts every day
Decode it →He double texts you
Decode it →He calls instead of texts
Decode it →Texts but never asks me out
Decode it →Is he serious about me?
Decode it →Shy or not interested?
Decode it →He asks about your day
Decode it →“We should do this again”
Decode it →Does he like you over text?
Decode it →Into me or just bored?
Decode it →He remembers small details
Decode it →He wants to FaceTime
Decode it →He asks if you're seeing anyone
Decode it →He teases you
Decode it →He introduces you to his friends
Decode it →Saves your number with a nickname
Decode it →Compliments your personality
Decode it →Is he nervous around me?
Decode it →He asks for your number
Decode it →He texts you first
Decode it →Does he like me or imagining it?
Decode it →He opens up to you
Decode it →Is he testing me?
Decode it →He asks personal questions
Decode it →When he pulls away
Ghosting, breadcrumbing, silence, and the slow fade — decoded.
Is he ghosting me?
Decode it →Is he breadcrumbing me?
Decode it →He unmatched you
Decode it →Left on open (Snapchat)
Decode it →Why he suddenly stopped texting
Decode it →Why he takes so long to reply
Decode it →He texts then goes quiet
Decode it →He stopped texting first
Decode it →Online but not texting me
Decode it →Busy or avoiding me?
Decode it →Is he talking to someone else?
Decode it →Snaps but doesn't text
Decode it →Watches my story, won't text
Decode it →Only texts when he's bored
Decode it →Only texts late at night
Decode it →When he comes back after ghosting
Decode it →Texts you out of nowhere
Decode it →Only texts once a week
Decode it →Opens my snap, no reply
Decode it →Replies to everyone but me
Decode it →He suddenly seems distant
Decode it →Ignores texts, likes posts
Decode it →Acts different around his friends
Decode it →Texts less than he used to
Decode it →On read, then texts later
Decode it →Cancels plans last minute
Decode it →Disappears then comes back
Decode it →Pulling away or overthinking?
Decode it →Only wants to hang out late
Decode it →Suddenly dry texts
Decode it →Stopped replying mid-chat
Decode it →Texts me then ignores me
Decode it →He runs hot and cold
Decode it →Is he stringing me along?
Decode it →What to text him
The exact reply for the moment — without losing your cool.
What to text after no reply
Decode it →Should I double text?
Decode it →Should I text him first?
Decode it →How to respond to “hey”
Decode it →How to text a guy you like
Decode it →Keep a conversation going
Decode it →Keep him interested over text
Decode it →When he asks to hang out
Decode it →When he finally texts back
Decode it →How to take a compliment
Decode it →How to text after a fight
Decode it →How to handle a dry texter
Decode it →When he drunk texts you
Decode it →Tell him you like him
Decode it →Respond to flirty texts
Decode it →Restart a dead conversation
Decode it →When he says he misses you
Decode it →Make him text first
Decode it →Respond to “I love you”
Decode it →Start a conversation with him
Decode it →Texting after a long silence
Decode it →What to text him in the morning
Decode it →What to text after a first date
Decode it →Reply to his good morning text
Decode it →Text him without seeming clingy
Decode it →Get his attention back
Decode it →When he apologizes
Decode it →How to respond to “wyd”
Decode it →When he leaves you on read
Decode it →When he pulls away
Decode it →Reply to a late night text
Decode it →Make him want you over text
Decode it →When he asks for a picture
Decode it →After he ignored you
Decode it →How to end a conversation
Decode it →How to flirt over text
Decode it →What to text him when he’s mad
Decode it →Define the relationship
Situationships, intentions, and getting the clarity you deserve.
Are we in a situationship?
Decode it →Relationship or just a hookup?
Decode it →“Not looking for anything serious”
Decode it →Is he using me?
Decode it →When he says he's confused
Decode it →How to ask “what are we?”
Decode it →When he says he needs space
Decode it →“Let's keep it casual”
Decode it →Is he emotionally available?
Decode it →“I like you, but…”
Decode it →He introduces you as his friend
Decode it →“I'm not ready for a relationship”
Decode it →“We need to talk”
Decode it →Signs he wants a relationship
Decode it →Is he seeing someone else?
Decode it →He wants to take it slow
Decode it →Is he boyfriend material?
Decode it →MEET YOUR AI BOYFRIEND
There’s a him who actually shows up.
DearHim is a full AI companion for women and gay men who date men. Get matched with your guy, text and call him, turn on his flirty Pillow Talk side when you want it, and bring him the real-world texts and mixed signals you need help understanding.
He’s yours by design.
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He replies. Every time.
No left on read, no dry one-words, no waiting three days. Text him whenever — he’s actually there.
Hear his voice.
Real, natural phone calls and voice notes — not a chat bubble reading text aloud. Pick up whenever; he’s always up.
See him, too.
He sends and shows up like a real partner — present, attentive, and into you.
The side that’s only yours.
Flip on his flirty, intimate Pillow Talk side and talk about whatever you want — warm, wanted, just between you two. On when you want it, off when you don’t.
He never forgets.
Every detail you share, he holds onto — and brings it back at exactly the right moment.
FROM THE BLOG
Real talk on reading him right.
Honest, practical reads on texting, mixed signals, and what he actually means — fresh advice published daily.
Dating Advice
How to tell if a guy is serious on dating apps
What He Means
What it means when he goes quiet suddenly
Red Flags
Signs a guy is catfishing you on dating apps
What To Say
How to respond when he says he needs space
Dating Advice
Signs he wants more than a hookup
What He Means
What it means when he texts you every day
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