❤️ (red heart)
The serious oneA red heart carries more weight than the others — it usually signals real affection, not just casual friendliness.
A heart can be casual, flirty, or genuinely meaningful — it depends which one and when. Paste it with context and I'll read what he meant.
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❤️ (red heart)
The serious oneA red heart carries more weight than the others — it usually signals real affection, not just casual friendliness.
😍 / 🥰
Attraction signalHeart-eyes and the smiling-heart face are flirty reactions — he's showing he's drawn to you or what you sent.
👍 or 💙 casually
Friendly, low stakesA blue heart or thumbs up tends to read warm-but-casual. Nice, but not a declaration — don't over-read it.
Hearts everything you send
Habit, not meaningIf he reacts to everything with a heart, it loses signal. Look for hearts paired with real words and effort.
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FAQ
It depends on which heart and the context — a red ❤️ carries real weight, while a casual 👍 or blue heart is friendlier and lower-stakes. DearHim reads it against the rest of the thread.
Not necessarily love, but it's the most affectionate of the hearts and usually signals genuine feeling. Context and consistency tell you how much.
If it matches how you feel, sure — but matching his level rather than escalating keeps things balanced. I'll help you read the right move.
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