DearHim
$25/signup
$35/signup or 30% x 6mo
40% x 6mo, then 15% x 12mo
Tiered creator payouts
Earn what you're worth, every tier.
$25 per paid signup at standard tier. Revshare options for larger audiences. The most aligned partner program in AI companions.
See what you could earn
Default assumes 25K audience and 0.2% monthly conversion. Move the audience slider to see your tier update.
Earnings calculator
Tier-aware estimates based on audience size, monthly conversion rate, and a $14.99 average subscription.
25,000 followers
5K2M
0.20%
Tier
Tier 1 - Standard (Under 100K audience)
Year 1
$15,000
$25 per paid signup x 50 signups/month
Two-year total
$30,000
Based on 50 new subscribers per month. Tiers are assigned based on your audience size at approval. Mid tier creators choose bounty or revshare once during application.
Posting Frequency Breakdown
How posting cadence changes estimated paid signups and tier-aware earnings.
| Frequency | New subs/mo | Est. monthly | Two-year total |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1x/week | 7 | $175 | $4,200 |
| 3x/week | 22 | $550 | $13,200 |
| Daily | 50 | $1,250 | $30,000 |
| 2x/day | 100 | $2,500 | $60,000 |
Your content kit includes
- Hook templates. 'I asked an AI what his text actually meant'
- Video scripts and talking points
- Custom landing page with your handle
- Analytics dashboard. See exactly what converts.
Best-in-class at every audience size
Simple bounty for the long tail, meaningful upside for creators with larger audiences.
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How you start earning
Apply
Submit your application. We review every creator personally.
Get set up
We build your link and landing page. You're live within 24 hours.
Earn
Get paid the way that fits your audience: fixed bounty, time-limited revshare, or top-tier phased revshare. We assign your tier when we approve you.
Content angles that are ready to post
The kit gives partners concrete hooks, captions, and landing-page language.
Angle 1
I pasted his text into an AI and it told me the part I was ignoring.
Angle 2
Your friend says "he is just busy." DearHim says what the pattern actually means.
Angle 3
Rate the roster: green flag, red flag, or emotional admin work?
Angle 4
Three replies that sound calm, hot, and not desperate.
Angle 5
When he says "I am not ready," here is what to ask next.
Angle 6
The 2am text decoder for people who already know better.
Frequently asked questions
Tiers are based on the audience size you self-report on your application, verified against your public-facing accounts. Tier 1 is under 100K total followers. Tier 2 is 100K-500K. Tier 3 is 500K+. We assign your tier when we approve you, and your compensation structure is locked from approval forward. If your audience grows past a tier threshold, reach out and we will evaluate moving you up.
Different audience sizes need different compensation structures. A creator with 30K followers usually wants a simple bounty they understand: $25 per signup, paid out, done. A creator with 800K followers wants meaningful upside that scales with performance. Tiers let us be best-in-class at every audience size.
No. Your choice is locked at approval so your earnings are predictable and we are not renegotiating every quarter. If your audience grows enough that you would qualify for Tier 3, we can evaluate moving you up at our discretion.
For revshare partners, your share applies to whatever subscription tier the user is on. If they upgrade, your share grows automatically. For bounty partners, you have already been paid for the signup, so later upgrades do not change that payout.
Bounty payouts are released 30 days after the subscriber first pays, as long as the subscription is still active. Revshare payouts are reviewed monthly after attribution and subscription status are confirmed.
Approved partners connect Stripe from the partner dashboard to receive payouts.
The dashboard shows current payout eligibility and any pending payout status.
Yes. For bounty partners, refunds inside the review window reverse the bounty. For revshare partners, refunds reverse only the commission earned for that specific payment period, not the whole cohort.
Partner links set referral attribution and route signups through tracked landing or direct links.
Creator partners can receive a public creator page with custom copy, CTA, and optional video.
Yes. The dashboard shows your page URL, direct referral link, copy actions, and preview access.
Attribution persists through the referral cookie and server-side signup flow when available.
Creators, newsletters, communities, and operators with audiences who talk about dating, relationships, or self-improvement.
The team reviews applications manually and aims to respond within 24 hours.
No. Audience fit and content quality matter as much as follower count.
Yes. Use the application to describe your audience, channels, and promotional ideas.
Text decode hooks, roster reviews, calm reply scripts, and pattern-recognition posts tend to fit the product.
Yes. Approved partners get content hooks, captions, and kit materials in the dashboard.
Yes. The kit is meant to give structure without making every post sound identical.
Yes. Partners should avoid misleading claims, harassment, or content that creates unsafe expectations.
DearHim is an AI relationship companion for decoding messages, choosing replies, and understanding patterns.
People who want sharper relationship context without waiting for a group chat to answer.
No. Lifestyle, queer culture, self-improvement, and wellness creators can also be a fit.
The CTA sends them into the DearHim signup flow where the current product offer is shown.
If your audience trusts your dating advice, this should be earning for you.
One application, a tier matched to your audience, and a tracking flow built for repeatable creator content.
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