He fumbles his words around you
Likely into you
Getting tongue-tied with you but smooth with others usually means you matter enough to rattle him. That's interest.
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He overthinks his texts to you
Good sign
Carefully worded, sometimes delayed texts can mean he wants to get it right with you specifically — not indifference.
He gets quiet and stiff
Could go either way
Nerves and discomfort can look alike. Check for warmth underneath — nervous-but-glowing differs from closed-off.
He's confident with everyone but you
Telling
A confident person who only loses their footing around you is showing you they care about your impression.
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FAQ
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Does being nervous mean he likes me?
Often, yes — nerves around you specifically (when he's smooth with others) usually mean he cares how you see him. DearHim can help you tell nervous interest from genuine discomfort.
How can I make him feel less nervous?
Be warm, easy, and a little reassuring — laugh, keep things light, and don't put him on the spot. Comfort grows with time and safety.
What if it's discomfort, not nerves?
Look for warmth underneath. Nervous-but-engaged leans toward liking you; cold and closed-off leans the other way. The overall vibe tells you.
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