Consistent effort, no words yet
Likely guarded
Steady initiation, memory of details, and showing up — without saying how he feels — often means feelings he's not ready to name.
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Gets nervous or deflects with humor
Protecting himself
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Remembers everything you say
Invested quietly
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All talk, no consistency
Probably not hiding much
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What are the signs he's hiding his feelings?
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Fear of rejection, past hurt, or not feeling ready are the usual reasons. It's about his guard, not your worth.
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