Texts mostly late at night
Hookup-leaning
A late-only rhythm with little daytime conversation usually points at physical convenience over real connection.
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Asks about your life and day
Relationship-leaning
Curiosity about who you are — not just plans to meet — signals he's interested in you, not only the hookup.
Makes real daytime plans
Investing
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Avoids any future or label talk
Keeping it casual on purpose
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FAQ
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How do I know if he wants a relationship or just a hookup?
Look at timing, curiosity, and effort: daytime conversation, questions about your life, and real plans lean relationship; late-only texts and avoidance of the future lean hookup. DearHim reads your thread to tell you which.
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