Names a specific next plan
He means it'Let's do this again — are you free Friday?' is the real version. Specificity is the proof of intent.
“We should do this again.”
Real intent, or a polite exit?
It's the most common post-date line — and it means very different things. Paste the context and I'll tell you if he means it.
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REAL DECODES
“Do this again,” decoded.
Says it, then goes quiet
PolitenessA vague 'we should' with no follow-up is often just a courteous goodbye. Watch the next 48 hours.
Texts the next day to plan
GenuineFollowing up soon to actually plan it turns the line into intent. That's the signal worth trusting.
Always 'soon,' never a date
Stringing it outRepeated 'soon' with no real plan is the line losing its meaning. Name a time once and let him answer.
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FAQ
More about “we should do this again.”
Does 'we should do this again' mean he likes me?
It can — but only follow-through proves it. A specific next plan means yes; a vague line with silence after is often politeness. DearHim reads the context for you.
Should I text him first to plan it?
If you're interested, a confident nudge toward a real plan is fine and clarifying. His response tells you what you need. I'll help you word it.
How long should I wait for him to follow up?
A genuinely interested person usually follows up within a few days. Extended silence after the line is its own answer.
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