His availability got unpredictable
Worth noticing
Sudden gaps, vague schedules, and inconsistent attention can mean his time is split. One change isn't proof; a cluster is a clue.
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REAL DECODES
Signs he may be seeing someone else.
He's vague about his plans
Possible sign
New evasiveness about where he is or who he's with can signal he's managing more than one connection. Trust shifts in the pattern.
He keeps things undefined on purpose
Telling
Resisting any label can be about keeping options open. Ambiguity sometimes protects his ability to see others.
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FAQ
More about him seeing other people.
What are signs he's seeing someone else?
Unpredictable availability, new vagueness about plans, resistance to defining things, and reduced attention. No single sign is proof, but a cluster is worth a direct conversation. DearHim helps you read it.
Should I just ask him if he's seeing other people?
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What if we never agreed to be exclusive?
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