He compliments you
Accept, then teaseTake the compliment with confidence, then volley back something playful instead of just saying thanks.
He's sending flirty texts.
Match the energy, keep the upper hand.
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He sends a cheeky line
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You want to flirt but feel awkward
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FAQ
More about responding to flirting.
How do I respond to flirty texts?
Match his energy with something playful and a little bolder, keep it short, and don't over-explain. DearHim writes you flirty replies that land.
How do I flirt back without being cringe?
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