You forgot to answer his actual question
Yes — go aheadAdding info or answering something you missed isn't needy, it's normal. Double-text freely here.
Should you double text him?
Sometimes. Usually not. Let's check.
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Double text: yes or no?
He didn't reply and you're anxious
No — waitA text sent from anxiety almost always reads as anxiety. Sit with it. If you still want to follow up tomorrow, do it calm.
Something genuinely funny/relevant came up
Yes — if it's realA natural, light message can re-open a thread. Just make sure it's actually about the thing, not a disguised "notice me."
You already followed up once
No — hold the linePast one follow-up, more messages lower your value faster than they raise his interest.
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FAQ
More about double texting.
Is double texting a bad thing?
Not inherently. Double texting to add real info or share something genuine is fine. Double texting from anxiety after silence is what tends to backfire. DearHim reads your specific situation and tells you which one this is.
How long should I wait before double texting?
If it's not urgent, wait at least a day and make sure the follow-up is calm, not a check-in on why he hasn't replied.
What do I say if I do double text?
Keep it short and light, and don't reference the gap or guilt-trip him. Paste your thread and I'll write the message for you.
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