150 DATING SIGNALS
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25 SIGNALS
Affection
What does it mean when he kisses your forehead?Read the signal →What does it mean when he holds your hand?Read the signal →What does it mean when he kisses your neck?Read the signal →What does it mean when he kisses the top of your head?Read the signal →What does it mean when he kisses your hand?Read the signal →What does it mean when he plays with your hair?Read the signal →What does it mean when he hugs you from behind?Read the signal →What does it mean when he touches your face?Read the signal →What does it mean when he rubs your back?Read the signal →What does it mean when he cuddles you all night?Read the signal →What does it mean when he looks deeply into your eyes?Read the signal →What does it mean when he kisses you slowly?Read the signal →What does it mean when he touches your arm while talking?Read the signal →What does it mean when he rests his head on you?Read the signal →What does it mean when he pulls you closer?Read the signal →What does it mean when he always kisses you goodbye?Read the signal →What does it mean when he stays close after intimacy?Read the signal →What does it mean when he is affectionate in private but not public?Read the signal →What does it mean when he squeezes your hand?Read the signal →What does it mean when he kisses your shoulder?Read the signal →What does it mean when he mirrors your body language?Read the signal →What does it mean when he always sits next to you?Read the signal →What does it mean when he fixes your hair or clothes?Read the signal →What does it mean when he lingers when saying goodbye?Read the signal →What does it mean when his face lights up when he sees you?Read the signal →
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Communication
What does it mean when he texts good morning every day?Read the signal →What does it mean when he texts goodnight every night?Read the signal →What does it mean when he randomly checks in on you?Read the signal →What does it mean when he sends you memes every day?Read the signal →What does it mean when he always replies fast?Read the signal →What does it mean when he takes hours to reply but keeps the conversation going?Read the signal →What does it mean when he double texts you?Read the signal →What does it mean when he calls instead of texting?Read the signal →What does it mean when he sends you voice notes?Read the signal →What does it mean when he asks you lots of questions?Read the signal →What does it mean when he brings up old conversations?Read the signal →What does it mean when he texts right after the date?Read the signal →What does it mean when he only texts late at night?Read the signal →What does it mean when he suddenly stops using emojis?Read the signal →What does it mean when he uses your name in texts?Read the signal →What does it mean when he sends long detailed messages?Read the signal →What does it mean when he always keeps the conversation going?Read the signal →What does it mean when he still texts when he is busy?Read the signal →What does it mean when he apologizes for replying late?Read the signal →What does it mean when he tells you small details about his day?Read the signal →What does it mean when he asks if you got home safe?Read the signal →What does it mean when he texts first after an argument?Read the signal →What does it mean when he sends you songs?Read the signal →What does it mean when he drunk texts you?Read the signal →What does it mean when he leaves you on read and comes back later?Read the signal →
20 SIGNALS
Effort
What does it mean when he drives far to see you?Read the signal →What does it mean when he helps you with small things?Read the signal →What does it mean when he makes time during a busy week?Read the signal →What does it mean when he remembers important dates?Read the signal →What does it mean when he brings your favorite snack?Read the signal →What does it mean when he checks on you when you are sick?Read the signal →What does it mean when he offers to help you move?Read the signal →What does it mean when he plans around your schedule?Read the signal →What does it mean when he learns about your interests?Read the signal →What does it mean when he notices your mood changed?Read the signal →What does it mean when he follows up after your big day?Read the signal →What does it mean when he does helpful things without being asked?Read the signal →What does it mean when he always shows up when he says he will?Read the signal →What does it mean when he wants to travel with you?Read the signal →What does it mean when he includes you in his hobbies?Read the signal →What does it mean when he asks how he can support you?Read the signal →What does it mean when he changes after you tell him something hurt?Read the signal →What does it mean when he celebrates your wins?Read the signal →What does it mean when he consistently makes you a priority?Read the signal →What does it mean when he only tries after you pull away?Read the signal →
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Plans
What does it mean when he asks you out days in advance?Read the signal →What does it mean when he only makes last-minute plans?Read the signal →What does it mean when he talks about future dates?Read the signal →What does it mean when he books tickets for something with you?Read the signal →What does it mean when he reschedules immediately after canceling?Read the signal →What does it mean when he cancels and does not reschedule?Read the signal →What does it mean when he asks for your schedule?Read the signal →What does it mean when he suggests a weekend trip?Read the signal →What does it mean when he invites you to something months away?Read the signal →What does it mean when he plans daytime dates?Read the signal →What does it mean when he only invites you to his place?Read the signal →What does it mean when he wants a regular date night?Read the signal →What does it mean when he asks you to join part of his vacation?Read the signal →What does it mean when he mentions spending holidays together?Read the signal →What does it mean when he plans around your real responsibilities?Read the signal →What does it mean when he says 'we should hang out' but stays vague?Read the signal →What does it mean when he confirms plans without being asked?Read the signal →What does it mean when he invites you to a wedding?Read the signal →What does it mean when he asks what kind of date you want?Read the signal →What does it mean when he makes a backup plan when things change?Read the signal →
15 SIGNALS
Labels
What does it mean when he calls you babe?Read the signal →What does it mean when he calls you beautiful?Read the signal →What does it mean when he calls you my love?Read the signal →What does it mean when he calls you sweetheart?Read the signal →What does it mean when he calls you bro?Read the signal →What does it mean when he calls you his girl?Read the signal →What does it mean when he jokes that you are basically dating?Read the signal →What does it mean when he introduces you as a friend?Read the signal →What does it mean when he says he adores you?Read the signal →What does it mean when he says he misses you?Read the signal →What does it mean when he says you are different?Read the signal →What does it mean when he says you deserve better?Read the signal →What does it mean when he says he is not ready for a relationship?Read the signal →What does it mean when he says he cares about you?Read the signal →What does it mean when he says you are his person?Read the signal →
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Boundaries
What does it mean when he respects your no immediately?Read the signal →What does it mean when he keeps pushing after you say no?Read the signal →What does it mean when he always asks for your location?Read the signal →What does it mean when he gets jealous of your friends?Read the signal →What does it mean when he wants to check your phone?Read the signal →What does it mean when he supports your need for alone time?Read the signal →What does it mean when he guilt-trips you for being busy?Read the signal →What does it mean when he listens during conflict?Read the signal →What does it mean when he gives you the silent treatment?Read the signal →What does it mean when he apologizes without excuses?Read the signal →What does it mean when he keeps making you prove your loyalty?Read the signal →What does it mean when he respects your slower pace?Read the signal →What does it mean when he pressures you to define the relationship fast?Read the signal →What does it mean when he can accept a different opinion?Read the signal →What does it mean when he actually changes after you set a boundary?Read the signal →
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Consistency
What does it mean when he is hot and cold?Read the signal →What does it mean when he has been consistent for weeks?Read the signal →What does it mean when he disappears after you get close?Read the signal →What does it mean when he returns whenever you move on?Read the signal →What does it mean when he is great in person but distant over text?Read the signal →What does it mean when his words and actions do not match?Read the signal →What does it mean when his effort drops after commitment?Read the signal →What does it mean when he keeps coming back but never commits?Read the signal →What does it mean when he stays consistent even when stressed?Read the signal →What does it mean when he is only affectionate after drinking?Read the signal →What does it mean when his mood controls how he treats you?Read the signal →What does it mean when he apologizes but repeats the same pattern?Read the signal →What does it mean when he consistently keeps small promises?Read the signal →What does it mean when he pulls away before every relationship milestone?Read the signal →What does it mean when you feel calm instead of confused around him?Read the signal →
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