Long typing after a serious message
Choosing words carefullyDrafting and redrafting after something heavy usually means he cares about getting the response right — a good sign, not a bad one.
He keeps typing and stopping.
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Types, stops, then sends something short
Held something backA long bubble followed by a tiny reply often means he wrote more and deleted it. There may be more he's not saying.
Types after you asked a direct question
Weighing how honest to beHesitation on a direct question can mean he's deciding how much truth to give. The pause itself is information.
Bubble appears, then nothing for hours
Avoiding the replyStarting to type and then going quiet for a long time can mean he doesn't want to answer yet. Don't fill the silence for him.
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More about the typing bubble.
What does it mean when he keeps typing and stopping?
Usually he's choosing his words, second-guessing, or holding something back — especially after a serious or direct message. DearHim reads the context to tell you which it likely is.
Should I say something if I see him typing and stopping?
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Does typing and stopping mean he's lying?
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