Says it with specifics about you
GenuineWhen 'different' comes with real reasons — something he actually noticed — it's sincere admiration.
He says you're “different.”
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“You're different,” decoded.
“not like other girls/guys” early on
Smooth lineA vague 'not like the others' said too soon can be a flattering script. Watch if his actions back it.
Says it, then acts inconsistent
Words over substanceCalling you special while treating you casually is a mismatch. Believe the behavior, not the compliment.
Backs it with consistent effort
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What does it mean when he says you're different?
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Is 'you're not like other girls' a red flag?
Not always, but a vague version said early can be a flattering script. Look for specifics and matching behavior.
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