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Keep it simple and warmA clear, light 'I really like talking to you' beats an overthought paragraph. Simple reads as confident.
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FAQ
More about telling him you like him.
How do I tell a guy I like him over text?
Keep it simple, warm, and low-pressure — share how you feel without demanding a verdict, and consider pairing it with a plan. DearHim writes you something genuine that protects your dignity.
Is it bad to confess feelings over text?
Not at all — text is fine, especially early on. What matters is being clear and confident rather than apologetic.
What if he doesn't feel the same?
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