After your joke
Genuinely amused‘lmao’ is a fuller laugh than ‘lol.’ It usually means you actually landed it — and he likes that you can.
‘lmao’ tends to read warmer and more genuine than ‘haha’ or ‘lol.’ Tell me the exchange and I’ll gauge how invested he is.
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After your joke
Genuinely amused‘lmao’ is a fuller laugh than ‘lol.’ It usually means you actually landed it — and he likes that you can.
‘lmao’ then he keeps the thread going
EngagedA real laugh plus a follow-up question is a strong interest signal. He’s enjoying the back-and-forth.
Just ‘lmao’ and nothing else
Friendly but a soft stopOn its own it can gently end a thread. Warm, but he’s not reaching for more right now.
‘lmaooo’ with extra letters
Extra investedStretched-out laughs usually mean more real enthusiasm. The extra effort tends to track with actual feeling.
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FAQ
On its own it just means he’s amused, but a real laugh plus continued effort is a good interest sign. DearHim reads the whole exchange, not one word.
‘lol’ is often filler, ‘haha’ is polite-to-warm, and ‘lmao’ usually reads as the most genuine laugh. Stretched versions (‘lmaooo’) tend to mean even more.
It can be when it’s the only reply. If he laughs and adds something, he’s keeping it going; a lone ‘lmao’ is a friendly pause.
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