He asks, then texts soon after
Genuine interestAsking and actually using it quickly means he wanted the line to you, not just the digits. That's real intent.
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Interest — the question is how serious.
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Asking for your number, by what follows.
He asks but never texts
CollectorGetting your number and going silent often means he liked the moment more than the follow-through. Don't chase it.
He asks to move off a dating app
Good signWanting to take it off the app to real texting usually signals he's more interested than the average match.
He asks in a group setting
Read it lightlyA casual ask in a group can be friendly or interested. What he does with it afterward tells you which.
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Does asking for my number mean he's interested?
It's a sign of interest, but the follow-through matters more. Asking and then actually texting you is the real signal. Asking and going quiet is just collecting. DearHim helps you read it.
What if he asked but never texted?
Then the interest was shallow or in-the-moment. Don't take on the chasing — someone who wants to talk to you will use the number.
Should I text him first after giving my number?
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