It started after a specific message
Something landed wrongIf you can trace the shift to one exchange, a misread or hurt feeling may be sitting under it. A calm check-in helps.
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Sudden dryness, by the likely cause.
He's stressed or busy
Often situationalOutside pressure shrinks people's texting bandwidth. If warmth returns when life calms down, it wasn't about you.
It's becoming the new normal
Cooling interestDryness that sticks around and spreads to plans and warmth usually means fading interest, not a bad day.
You over-texted and he retreated
Reset neededSometimes dryness is a reaction to too much, too fast. Easing off can restore a healthier rhythm.
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More about sudden dryness.
Why did he suddenly start texting dry?
Common causes are something that landed wrong, outside stress, cooling interest, or a reaction to over-texting. The trigger and whether it persists tell you which. DearHim helps you narrow it down.
Should I ask why he's being dry?
You can, once and calmly — 'You've felt a bit short lately, all good?' Don't interrogate. If dryness is the new normal despite asking, believe the pattern.
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