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Open a fresh loopDon't apologize for the gap. Lead with something new and specific that gives him an easy way back in.
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FAQ
More about restarting conversations.
How do I restart a dead conversation?
Skip apologizing for the gap and open a fresh, specific loop — a new topic or an inside joke works best. DearHim writes you a reopener that lands naturally.
Is it weird to text after a long silence?
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