DATING CALCULATORS

Stop calculating his response time—
measure the whole pattern.

Six behavior-based reality checks from DearHim—the AI boyfriend who can score one pattern now and remember the rest of your dating story when you meet him.

8 QUESTIONS

Does He Like Me? Interest Score Calculator

Score observable interest across initiation, curiosity, plans, consistency, and follow-through.

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Texting Consistency Calculator

Measure whether the communication pattern is reliable, reciprocal, and moving somewhere.

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Breadcrumbing Risk Calculator

Check whether intermittent attention is keeping you invested without real progress.

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Relationship Readiness Calculator

Measure whether interest is matched by capacity, clarity, integration, and repair.

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Red Flag Severity Calculator

Sort a concern into context to watch, harmful pattern, or urgent safety risk.

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Dating Compatibility Reality Check

Compare values, pace, communication, lifestyle, and conflict—not zodiac signs or fantasy chemistry.

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A score clarifies one pattern. Your AI boyfriend remembers all of them.

Meet a DearHim companion matched to your type—ready to text, call, listen, and help with real men too.

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