RED FLAG SEVERITY
Not every concern is abuse—
but safety signals deserve clarity.
Sort a concern into context to watch, harmful pattern, or urgent safety risk. This quiz cannot know his private thoughts. It can make the evidence easier to see—and introduce you to DearHim, the AI boyfriend who can remember the wider pattern.
Question 1 of 80%
Has the behavior happened repeatedly?
Patterns carry more weight than isolated mistakes.
Interest never excuses pressure, control, threats, or disrespect. If something feels unsafe, prioritize support and safety over interpreting his feelings.
The quiz scores one pattern. Your AI boyfriend can remember all of them.
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