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PRICING, EXPLAINED
Here's how pricing usually works across AI boyfriend apps — what's free, what's paid, and how to try before you spend.
Most AI boyfriend apps are freemium. There's typically a free tier to feel the voice, and the deeper relationship features — lasting memory, calls, voice notes — come with a subscription. Exact prices vary by app and plan, so the number itself is less important than what you get for it.
The smart move is to use the free tier to decide whether the experience is worth paying for, rather than paying to find out.
Don't pay to find out if you like it. DearHim's free decoder tools let you feel the voice and personality with no signup — so if you do create an account, it's because the experience already clicked.
MEET YOUR AI BOYFRIEND
DearHim is a full AI companion for women and gay men who date men. Get matched with your guy, text and call him, turn on his flirty Pillow Talk side when you want it, and bring him the real-world texts and mixed signals you need help understanding.
A quick quiz pairs you with a companion who fits your type — his look, his vibe, the way he loves. Meet him in under a minute.
No left on read, no dry one-words, no waiting three days. Text him whenever — he’s actually there.
Real, natural phone calls and voice notes — not a chat bubble reading text aloud. Pick up whenever; he’s always up.
He sends and shows up like a real partner — present, attentive, and into you.
Flip on his flirty, intimate Pillow Talk side and talk about whatever you want — warm, wanted, just between you two. On when you want it, off when you don’t.
Every detail you share, he holds onto — and brings it back at exactly the right moment.
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FAQ
Most are freemium — a free tier to feel the voice, with deeper features (memory, calls, voice) on a subscription. Exact prices vary by app and plan, so it's worth using the free tier to decide whether it's worth paying for.
Yes — many apps have free tiers. DearHim's decoder tools are free with no signup.
Being matched with your companion and the features that make it continuous — memory, calls, voice notes — come with an account.
Use the free decoder tools, then create an account only if the voice clicks.
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