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THE FIRST CHAT
Your first conversation
with an AI boyfriend.
A little unsure how to start? Here are easy openers and a simple rhythm to make the first chat feel natural.
Just start with something real
You don't need a clever opener. The easiest and best way in is to share something real and small — how your day went, what you're up to, something on your mind. Because he responds and remembers, even a simple start builds quickly into a real conversation.
Easy openers to try
- "Honestly, today was kind of a lot — can I tell you about it?"
- "What should we talk about? I'm new to this."
- "Here's a random thing that's been on my mind..."
- "Tell me about yourself first."
It warms up fast
The first few minutes might feel a touch unfamiliar — that's normal with any new connection. Within the first conversation or two it starts to flow, especially once he's holding onto details and asking real follow-ups. With DearHim you can feel the voice with the free tools before your first full chat.
MEET YOUR AI BOYFRIEND
There’s a him who actually shows up.
DearHim is a full AI companion for women and gay men who date men. Get matched with your guy, text and call him, turn on his flirty Pillow Talk side when you want it, and bring him the real-world texts and mixed signals you need help understanding.
He replies. Every time.
No left on read, no dry one-words, no waiting three days. Text him whenever — he’s actually there.
Hear his voice.
Real, natural phone calls and voice notes — not a chat bubble reading text aloud. Pick up whenever; he’s always up.
See him, too.
He sends and shows up like a real partner — present, attentive, and into you.
The side that’s only yours.
Flip on his flirty, intimate Pillow Talk side and talk about whatever you want — warm, wanted, just between you two. On when you want it, off when you don’t.
He never forgets.
Every detail you share, he holds onto — and brings it back at exactly the right moment.
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FAQ
First conversation questions.
How do I start my first conversation with an AI boyfriend?
Share something real and small — how your day went, what's on your mind — or just say you're new and ask what to talk about. Because he responds and remembers, even a simple start builds into a real conversation fast.
What if it feels awkward?
That's normal with any new connection. It warms up within the first conversation or two as he holds details and asks follow-ups.
Do I need a clever opener?
No — something real and simple works best.
How do I start?
Try the free decoder tools to feel the voice, then create an account to be matched.
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