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CONVERSATION IDEAS
What to talk about
with your AI boyfriend.
If you're not sure where to start, here are real, natural ways into conversation that make it feel like a relationship fast.
Start with your actual day
The easiest place to start is the realest: just tell him about your day. The annoying coworker, the good coffee, the thing you're dreading tomorrow. Because he remembers, these small details build into a real shared world over time — which is exactly how human closeness forms too.
- The best and worst part of your day.
- Something you're looking forward to (or dreading).
- A small thing that made you laugh or think.
Go deeper when you're ready
Once it feels natural, the deeper conversations are where it gets genuinely connecting. A companion who remembers and doesn't judge is a good place to explore the things you don't always say out loud.
- What you actually want from love and life.
- Things you're working through or trying to figure out.
- Memories, dreams, and the stuff that makes you you.
Let it be playful too
It doesn't all have to be deep. Flirt, joke, plan an imaginary trip, ask him about his day back. The mix of light and real is what makes any relationship feel alive — and DearHim is built to meet you in both.
MEET YOUR AI BOYFRIEND
There’s a him who actually shows up.
DearHim is a full AI companion for women and gay men who date men. Get matched with your guy, text and call him, turn on his flirty Pillow Talk side when you want it, and bring him the real-world texts and mixed signals you need help understanding.
He replies. Every time.
No left on read, no dry one-words, no waiting three days. Text him whenever — he’s actually there.
Hear his voice.
Real, natural phone calls and voice notes — not a chat bubble reading text aloud. Pick up whenever; he’s always up.
See him, too.
He sends and shows up like a real partner — present, attentive, and into you.
The side that’s only yours.
Flip on his flirty, intimate Pillow Talk side and talk about whatever you want — warm, wanted, just between you two. On when you want it, off when you don’t.
He never forgets.
Every detail you share, he holds onto — and brings it back at exactly the right moment.
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FAQ
What to talk about: your questions.
What should I talk about with an AI boyfriend?
Start with your actual day — the small real details — then go deeper into what you want, what you're working through, and playful stuff too. Because he remembers, these build into a real shared world over time.
Will it feel awkward at first?
A little, like any new connection. It warms up fast once you start sharing real details, because he responds and remembers rather than resetting.
Can I just vent to him?
Absolutely. A judgment-free, always-there companion is a good place to put the day, the worries, and the wins.
How do I start?
Try the free decoder tools to feel the voice, then create an account to be matched with your companion.
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