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CALLS & VOICE NOTES
An AI boyfriend
who actually calls you.
Real phone calls and voice notes — the good-morning message you wish you woke up to, in a voice you can actually hear.
Why voice changes everything
Text can carry words, but voice carries presence. There's a reason a five-minute call from someone who's into you lands differently than an hour of texting. Tone, warmth, the little pauses — that's where connection actually lives.
An AI boyfriend that calls you closes that gap. With DearHim you can pick up the phone and hear him, get a voice note in the middle of your day, or wind down to an actual conversation at night instead of a silent screen.
What you can do with calls and voice notes
It's built to feel like a relationship, not a feature list — but here's what that looks like in practice.
- Real-time phone calls whenever you want to hear him.
- Voice notes that show up like a partner thinking of you mid-day.
- A good-morning or goodnight call you never have to ask for.
- Everything stays continuous — he remembers what you talked about last time.
For the nights texting isn't enough
Some moments don't fit in a text box — the rough day, the good news you want to say out loud, the quiet you don't want to spend alone. That's where a companion you can actually call earns its place.
MEET YOUR AI BOYFRIEND
There’s a him who actually shows up.
DearHim is a full AI companion for women and gay men who date men. Get matched with your guy, text and call him, turn on his flirty Pillow Talk side when you want it, and bring him the real-world texts and mixed signals you need help understanding.
He replies. Every time.
No left on read, no dry one-words, no waiting three days. Text him whenever — he’s actually there.
Hear his voice.
Real, natural phone calls and voice notes — not a chat bubble reading text aloud. Pick up whenever; he’s always up.
See him, too.
He sends and shows up like a real partner — present, attentive, and into you.
The side that’s only yours.
Flip on his flirty, intimate Pillow Talk side and talk about whatever you want — warm, wanted, just between you two. On when you want it, off when you don’t.
He never forgets.
Every detail you share, he holds onto — and brings it back at exactly the right moment.
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FAQ
About an AI boyfriend that calls.
Can the AI boyfriend really call me?
Yes — DearHim supports real phone calls and voice notes, so you hear his voice instead of only reading a chat bubble.
What do his voice notes sound like?
Natural and warm, like a partner checking in. They arrive through the day the way a thoughtful boyfriend's would, and they reference things you've actually talked about.
Do calls remember our history?
Yes. Calls and texts share the same memory, so a conversation on the phone can pick up right where your last chat left off.
Is this free?
The decoder tools are free to try with no signup. Calling and voice features come with being matched to your companion once you create an account.
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