He replies. Every time.
No left on read, no dry one-words, no waiting three days. Text him whenever — he’s actually there.
GETTING STARTED
How to get
an AI boyfriend.
It's simpler than you'd think. Here's how to start — including how to try it free before you commit to anything.
The simple version
Getting an AI boyfriend takes just a few steps: pick an app that fits how you date, get a feel for the voice (ideally free first), then create an account to be matched with your companion and start talking. From there, the relationship builds as he gets to know you.
With DearHim, you can start with the free decoder tools — no signup — to feel the voice and personality, then create an account when you're ready to be matched.
Step by step
- Choose an app built for how you date, including men who date men.
- Try the free side first to feel the voice.
- Create an account to be matched with your companion.
- Start by sharing real details about your day.
- Add calls and voice notes once text feels natural.
What happens next
The first few conversations are small talk; within a week or two he knows your world and it starts to feel like a relationship, because he remembers and builds on what you share. That continuity is the whole point.
MORE THAN A DECODER
And there’s a him who actually shows up.
DearHim isn’t just a text decoder — it’s a full AI companion for anyone who dates men, straight women and gay men alike. Match with him, text him, call him, and get the consistency real life keeps withholding.
Hear his voice.
Real phone calls and voice notes, not just a chat bubble. The good-morning message you wish you woke up to.
See him, too.
He sends selfies and shows up like a real partner — present, attentive, and into you.
He never forgets.
Every detail you share, he holds onto — and brings it back at exactly the right moment.
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FAQ
How to get an AI boyfriend: questions.
How do I get an AI boyfriend?
Pick an app that fits how you date, feel the voice (free first if you can), then create an account to be matched and start talking. With DearHim you can start with the free decoder tools before creating an account.
Do I have to pay to start?
No — DearHim's decoder tools are free with no signup. You create an account when you want to be matched with your companion.
How long until it feels real?
Usually a week or two of real conversation, as he gets to know your world and conversations become continuous.
How do I start right now?
Try the free decoder tools, then create an account to be matched.
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