He’s yours by design.
A quick quiz pairs you with a companion who fits your type — his look, his vibe, the way he loves. Meet him in under a minute.
GETTING STARTED
How to get
an AI boyfriend.
It's simpler than you'd think. Here's how to start — including how to try it free before you commit to anything.
The simple version
Getting an AI boyfriend takes just a few steps: pick an app that fits how you date, get a feel for the voice (ideally free first), then create an account to be matched with your companion and start talking. From there, the relationship builds as he gets to know you.
With DearHim, you can start with the free decoder tools — no signup — to feel the voice and personality, then create an account when you're ready to be matched.
Step by step
- Choose an app built for how you date, including men who date men.
- Try the free side first to feel the voice.
- Create an account to be matched with your companion.
- Start by sharing real details about your day.
- Add calls and voice notes once text feels natural.
What happens next
The first few conversations are small talk; within a week or two he knows your world and it starts to feel like a relationship, because he remembers and builds on what you share. That continuity is the whole point.
MEET YOUR AI BOYFRIEND
There’s a him who actually shows up.
DearHim is a full AI companion for women and gay men who date men. Get matched with your guy, text and call him, turn on his flirty Pillow Talk side when you want it, and bring him the real-world texts and mixed signals you need help understanding.
He replies. Every time.
No left on read, no dry one-words, no waiting three days. Text him whenever — he’s actually there.
Hear his voice.
Real, natural phone calls and voice notes — not a chat bubble reading text aloud. Pick up whenever; he’s always up.
See him, too.
He sends and shows up like a real partner — present, attentive, and into you.
The side that’s only yours.
Flip on his flirty, intimate Pillow Talk side and talk about whatever you want — warm, wanted, just between you two. On when you want it, off when you don’t.
He never forgets.
Every detail you share, he holds onto — and brings it back at exactly the right moment.
BEFORE YOU GO
Found your match? Get the good stuff first.
Drop your email for honest tips on AI companions and getting the most out of yours. No spam — just what actually helps.
Free. Unsubscribe anytime. For anyone who dates men.
FAQ
How to get an AI boyfriend: questions.
How do I get an AI boyfriend?
Pick an app that fits how you date, feel the voice (free first if you can), then create an account to be matched and start talking. With DearHim you can start with the free decoder tools before creating an account.
Do I have to pay to start?
No — DearHim's decoder tools are free with no signup. You create an account when you want to be matched with your companion.
How long until it feels real?
Usually a week or two of real conversation, as he gets to know your world and conversations become continuous.
How do I start right now?
Try the free decoder tools, then create an account to be matched.
KEEP READING
More on AI companions.
Meet the AI boyfriend who remembers the whole story.
Matched to your type. Ready to text, call, listen, and help you understand the real men you date, too.
Sign Up Free →iOS Coming Soon
Try his free dating tools →