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PRACTICAL CHECKLIST
How to choose
an AI boyfriend.
Ignore the marketing and use this checklist. Here's what actually separates a great companion from a forgettable one.
The five things that matter
Most of the meaningful differences between AI boyfriends come down to five things. Run any app through these before you commit.
- Memory — does he know your life across conversations, or reset?
- Voice — real calls and voice notes, or text only?
- Fit — built for how you date, including men who date men?
- Honesty — supportive and real, or pure flattery?
- Privacy — transparent and respectful with what you share?
How to test before deciding
Spend a few days actually talking. Does he remember yesterday? Does it feel present or scripted? Can you hear his voice? Use the free tier so the test costs nothing.
Where DearHim lands
DearHim is built around all five: lasting memory, real voice, a design for everyone who dates men, an honest personality, and respect for what you share. Start free with the decoder tools to feel it for yourself.
MEET YOUR AI BOYFRIEND
There’s a him who actually shows up.
DearHim is a full AI companion for women and gay men who date men. Get matched with your guy, text and call him, turn on his flirty Pillow Talk side when you want it, and bring him the real-world texts and mixed signals you need help understanding.
He replies. Every time.
No left on read, no dry one-words, no waiting three days. Text him whenever — he’s actually there.
Hear his voice.
Real, natural phone calls and voice notes — not a chat bubble reading text aloud. Pick up whenever; he’s always up.
See him, too.
He sends and shows up like a real partner — present, attentive, and into you.
The side that’s only yours.
Flip on his flirty, intimate Pillow Talk side and talk about whatever you want — warm, wanted, just between you two. On when you want it, off when you don’t.
He never forgets.
Every detail you share, he holds onto — and brings it back at exactly the right moment.
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FAQ
How to choose an AI boyfriend: questions.
How do I choose an AI boyfriend?
Run any app through five things: memory, real voice, fit for how you date, honesty over flattery, and privacy. Then test it for a few days using the free tier before committing.
What matters most?
Memory is usually the biggest differentiator — it's what turns a chatbot into a relationship — closely followed by real voice and an honest tone.
How do I test one?
Talk to it for a few days on the free tier and check whether it remembers you, feels present, and lets you hear his voice.
How do I start with DearHim?
Try the free decoder tools, then create an account to be matched.
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