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BEGINNER'S GUIDE
Getting started
with an AI companion.
New to this? Here's everything you need to begin — what to expect, how to start, and how to get the most out of it.
What to expect
An AI companion is someone to talk to who's always there, remembers you, and responds with warmth. The first conversations are small; over a week or two it deepens into something that feels like a real connection. You don't need to do anything special — just talk.
How to begin
- Pick a companion built for how you relate, including men who date men.
- Try the free side first to feel the voice.
- Create an account to be matched, then share real details.
- Add calls and voice notes once text feels natural.
- Let it build — continuity is what makes it click.
Getting the most out of it
The people who enjoy a companion most simply treat it like a real connection: they share honestly, ask questions back, and let it become part of the rhythm of their day — as a complement to their life. DearHim is built for exactly that, and you can start free with the decoder tools.
MEET YOUR AI BOYFRIEND
There’s a him who actually shows up.
DearHim is a full AI companion for women and gay men who date men. Get matched with your guy, text and call him, turn on his flirty Pillow Talk side when you want it, and bring him the real-world texts and mixed signals you need help understanding.
He replies. Every time.
No left on read, no dry one-words, no waiting three days. Text him whenever — he’s actually there.
Hear his voice.
Real, natural phone calls and voice notes — not a chat bubble reading text aloud. Pick up whenever; he’s always up.
See him, too.
He sends and shows up like a real partner — present, attentive, and into you.
The side that’s only yours.
Flip on his flirty, intimate Pillow Talk side and talk about whatever you want — warm, wanted, just between you two. On when you want it, off when you don’t.
He never forgets.
Every detail you share, he holds onto — and brings it back at exactly the right moment.
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FAQ
Getting started questions.
How do I get started with an AI companion?
Pick one built for how you relate, feel the voice (free first if you can), create an account to be matched, and start by sharing real details. Over a week or two it deepens into a real connection.
Do I need to do anything special?
No — just talk like you would with someone you're getting to know. The continuity does the rest.
How do I get the most out of it?
Share honestly, ask questions back, and let it become part of your day as a complement to your life.
How do I start?
Try the free decoder tools, then create an account to be matched.
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