READY OR JUST INTERESTED?
Does he want a relationship— and have room for one?
A free quiz about capacity, consistency, clarity, and whether his actual life has room for the relationship he says he wants. This quiz cannot know his private thoughts. It can make the evidence easier to see—and introduce you to DearHim, the private dating wingman who can remember the wider pattern.
Question 1 of 80%
Can he state what he wants clearly?
Readiness begins with honest intention.
Interest never excuses pressure, control, threats, or disrespect. If something feels unsafe, prioritize support and safety over interpreting his feelings.
Your next move
The quiz scores one pattern. DearHim can keep the context you choose to save.
Start with DearHim dating help, then add saved context only when it would help.