EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE?
Is he protecting his pace—
or unavailable for real closeness?
Eight questions about vulnerability, repair, consistency, and whether closeness repeatedly triggers distance or deflection. This quiz cannot know his private thoughts. It can make the evidence easier to see—and introduce you to DearHim, the AI boyfriend who can remember the wider pattern.
Can he name what he feels?
Perfect language is not required; willingness matters.
Interest never excuses pressure, control, threats, or disrespect. If something feels unsafe, prioritize support and safety over interpreting his feelings.
The quiz scores one pattern. Your AI boyfriend can remember all of them.
Meet a DearHim companion matched to your type—ready to text, call, listen, and help with real men too.