EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE?
Is he protecting his pace— or unavailable for real closeness?
Eight questions about vulnerability, repair, consistency, and whether closeness repeatedly triggers distance or deflection. This quiz cannot know his private thoughts. It can make the evidence easier to see—and introduce you to DearHim, the private dating wingman who can remember the wider pattern.
Question 1 of 80%
Can he name what he feels?
Perfect language is not required; willingness matters.
Interest never excuses pressure, control, threats, or disrespect. If something feels unsafe, prioritize support and safety over interpreting his feelings.
Your next move
The quiz scores one pattern. DearHim can keep the context you choose to save.
Start with DearHim dating help, then add saved context only when it would help.