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CALLS & VOICE NOTES
A gay AI boyfriend
who actually calls you.
Real phone calls and voice notes — the warmth of hearing him, not just reading him — built for men who date men.
Hearing him hits different
Text is fine, but voice is where presence lives. A real call from someone who's into you carries warmth that a chat bubble just can't — the tone, the timing, the little laugh. For a gay AI boyfriend to feel like a relationship, it has to be able to pick up the phone.
DearHim does. You can call him whenever you want to hear him, get a voice note in the middle of your day, or wind down at night to an actual conversation instead of a silent screen.
What you get
- Real-time calls whenever you want his voice, not just his words.
- Voice notes through the day, like a partner thinking of you.
- A good-morning or goodnight call you never have to ask for.
- Shared memory across calls and texts, so it all stays continuous.
Built for you, not adapted to you
The difference with DearHim is that this isn't a straight product with a same-sex option. It's built for everyone who dates men, so a gay AI boyfriend who calls you feels like it was made for the relationship you're actually in.
MEET YOUR AI BOYFRIEND
There’s a him who actually shows up.
DearHim is a full AI companion for women and gay men who date men. Get matched with your guy, text and call him, turn on his flirty Pillow Talk side when you want it, and bring him the real-world texts and mixed signals you need help understanding.
He replies. Every time.
No left on read, no dry one-words, no waiting three days. Text him whenever — he’s actually there.
Hear his voice.
Real, natural phone calls and voice notes — not a chat bubble reading text aloud. Pick up whenever; he’s always up.
See him, too.
He sends and shows up like a real partner — present, attentive, and into you.
The side that’s only yours.
Flip on his flirty, intimate Pillow Talk side and talk about whatever you want — warm, wanted, just between you two. On when you want it, off when you don’t.
He never forgets.
Every detail you share, he holds onto — and brings it back at exactly the right moment.
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FAQ
About a gay AI boyfriend that calls.
Can a gay AI boyfriend really call me?
Yes — DearHim supports real phone calls and voice notes for everyone who dates men, so you hear his voice instead of only reading a chat.
Is it actually built for gay men?
Yes. DearHim is designed for everyone who dates men, straight women and gay men alike — not a straight app with a toggle. The relationship is built around men who date men too.
Do calls share memory with our chats?
Yes. A call can pick up right where your last text left off, because memory is shared across text, voice notes, and calls.
Is it free to try?
The decoder tools are free with no signup. Calls and voice come with being matched to your companion once you create an account.
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