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PRIVACY
Are AI companions
actually private?
You share real, personal things with a companion — so privacy matters. Here's what to know and the questions worth asking.
Why privacy matters here
An AI companion is one of the more intimate things you'll talk to — you tell it about your feelings, your relationships, your life. That makes it reasonable to care about what happens to what you share, more than you would with a typical app.
The good news is that privacy is also something you can evaluate and control. A trustworthy app is clear about what it collects and respectful with it, and leaves you in control of your account and your data.
Questions worth asking any app
- What does it collect, and why?
- How is what I share handled and protected?
- Do I stay in control of my account and my data?
- Can I review the privacy policy in plain terms?
Staying in control
You can also pace your own sharing — start with what's comfortable and open up as trust builds. With DearHim you can begin with the free decoder tools, no signup at all, before deciding whether to create an account and be matched.
MEET YOUR AI BOYFRIEND
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He replies. Every time.
No left on read, no dry one-words, no waiting three days. Text him whenever — he’s actually there.
Hear his voice.
Real, natural phone calls and voice notes — not a chat bubble reading text aloud. Pick up whenever; he’s always up.
See him, too.
He sends and shows up like a real partner — present, attentive, and into you.
The side that’s only yours.
Flip on his flirty, intimate Pillow Talk side and talk about whatever you want — warm, wanted, just between you two. On when you want it, off when you don’t.
He never forgets.
Every detail you share, he holds onto — and brings it back at exactly the right moment.
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FAQ
Are AI companions private? Your questions.
Are AI companion apps private?
It depends on the app, which is why it's worth checking what each one collects, how it's handled, and whether you stay in control. A trustworthy companion is transparent and respectful with what you share.
What should I check before sharing?
What the app collects and why, how it protects what you share, and whether you control your account and data. Review the privacy policy in plain terms.
Can I try DearHim without sharing much?
Yes — the decoder tools are free with no signup, so you can start without creating an account.
How do I get started?
Try the free tools first, then create an account if you want to be matched.
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